When Christians Clash (Study Guide)

“When Christians Clash”
Sermon Study Guide for April 28, 2019

Scripture: Matthew 18:15-22

1. They’ll know we are Christians by our…
John 13:35; 17:21
Psalm 133:1

2. Jesus’ Process for Handling Conflict
a. The reason for going to someone

b. Step 1: ___________________ (18:15)


c. Step 2: ___________________ (18:16)

Deuteronomy 19:15


d. Final step: _____________________ (18:17)

Must surround this step with _______________
(18:18-20)

Gentiles and tax collectors…
Matthew 11:19 – Jesus, friend of…

3. Forgiveness
How many times? (18:21-22)



Where two or three are gathered…the presence of Jesus






Questions for Discussion and Reflection
  1. Think of a time when you were in the middle of conflict. What was the setting? How was it handled? What was the end result?
  2. Why do conflicts in the church seem to be much more difficult to handle?
  3. Reflect on this statement: “People often know us [the church] more by what we’re against than what we’re for.” Do you agree or disagree? Why?
  4. What would be the motivation for approaching someone to talk about a conflict?
  5. What does “unity” mean to you? In what ways can we be unified even if we don’t agree on everything?
  6. What is the goal in every attempt at conflict resolution?
  7. In what ways do you often keep track of the number of times you’ve forgiven someone? How can you move beyond that practice?

Scripture for the Week:
Monday - Psalm 133
Tuesday - John 17:20-26
Wednesday - Matthew 11:16-19
Thursday - 1 Corinthians 1:10-18
Friday - Ephesians 4:1-6
Saturday - Romans 12:9-21

In response to this Scripture, how will you live?



Prayer Prompt: With whom is God calling me to pursue reconciliation?

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